When you dream about having an argument, one of the most important things to consider is who is the person that you are arguing with? If it is a person that you know in your waking life, then this usually means something about their relationship with you. Do you have a strained relationship, or are things not getting along so well with them? If this is the case, then this is an easy reason to explain why you might be having dreams where the two of you are arguing. There is an unsettled dispute going on between the two of you and your mind is trying to come up with a way of coming to a resolution while you are asleep, so that your subconscious can take over the reasoning issue.
When you are dreaming that you are arguing with nobody in particular or are argumentative for no real reason, this is indicative of you feeling angry at everything in general. This is a poisonous attitude which is known for being extremely unhelpful in social situations. Have you been more prone to outbursts than usual in the past few days, or have you been obnoxiously cruel to those around you for no real reason? Think about why your temper is getting shorter and then you may have the answer for why you are dreaming about arguments.
Our dreams come from familiar places. If you have been driving for the past ten hours, you will probably have dreams about driving. If you have been driving for the past ten hours and having visions of your future wedding then you may dream that you are driving towards your own wedding. Therefore, it follows that if you have been in a terrible mood lately and have been treating others horribly, then of course in your dreams you will be arguing with and yelling at others.
Do not let yourself fall into a routine of terrible attitudes. You need to be able to control yourself, because if you cannot explain your actions to yourself or why you have been acting angry for no reason, it shows a definite lack of self control.
Another reason that you might be arguing in your dreams though might have nothing to do with the identity of the person you are arguing with. This interpretation has more to do with feelings of inner strife and issues related to your inner thoughts. If you have been having convoluted thoughts or have been confused about what direction to take a decision in lately, then this could relate to your dreams about arguments. You are dreaming about arguments because you have been having an internal argument with yourself all day long. You should not let things like this seep into your dreams, but because you cannot control these instances, just take a dream like this as a sign that you should take more control over yourself instead. Learn to accept past decisions because it is the only way to move forward.
I had a dream of arguing with my mum. We were yelling at each other and i said some horrible stuff to her and went to my room feeling bad. In real life my mum is pregnant, which honestly I’m not happy about, I haven’t told her that but I think that’s part of what the arguement was about.
Nobody Special
2017-09-18 11:45:17
0
I had a dream I was arguing with myself. I kept beating myself up over nothing, as I do in reality.. I recently got in an argument with my father. It ended with me in tears and storming off into my room. Every couple minutes he'd come in and say something. I don't know if that's why I dreamthink of arguing. But that's the only reason I could come up with.
Debs
2017-09-04 18:20:58
-4
I had a dream that I died ended up in a different realm with about 5 others people I wasn't that close to we came back to life. I got home to find out my husband moved on and all we did was argue the entire time. He didn't tell me how I died or how long I was dead it felt like it was only 3 days. I called my Bestfriend and she told me I was dead for 3 weeks but my husband moved on 2days after my death. I tried to call my friend but his phone repeatedly went to voicemail so i started crying really hard and woke up hyperventilating
Indeed
2016-10-30 11:33:16
+2
Tisk tisk too obvious. Don't be so cookoe cutter psychologist. The reason you are arguing with someone in your dream is because of anger!! May not necessarily have to be that person in particular they are just am outlet to perhaps the real reason you are upset in your life. Life isn't always the best at times, and excuse me for saying this, ripping someone a new asshole can ne quite a way to vacuate those frustrations.
anon
2016-10-27 13:37:21
0
Conflicting conversations with my parents. I have a great relationship with my parents too. For the last year they've gotten too real. I have to stop and really think if we discussed certain issues, or I just dreamed it. I've recently been forced to move back in with them, I want nothing but to get out and stop being a burden. But they don't see me that way, and in a way far too forgiving of my lack of financial independence. Almost like my dreams are trying to make me act/sound as crazy I feel to the eyes of others during wake. Also a lot of teeth falling out / surgery dreams. At least those are easy to tell apart from reality...
Miscellaneous
2017-10-15 13:26:54
0
The teeth falling out usually always means death... And bout your feelings on ur financial situation and you living at home with your parents who give a u know what! If your parents don't c u that way then it shouldn't matter to anyone else, how does u staying home with your parents have anything to do with anyone else. I left my mothers at 19 and had to move back in and then got my stuff together and moved out and I hope my daughter stay living with me forever. My point is stop being so hard on yourself you'll figure things out and things will fall into place f*** what anyone else says or how they feel bout it the ones who actually have the right to say something bout it don't mind it, just cherish the moments u spend with them cuz u never know how long you'll still have them around for. Best of luck 🙂
Tawnee
2016-08-31 07:50:35
-7
I had a dream today that me and my boyfriend were arguing about that stuff that does not know about how I feel. He said some hurtful thing. But in the dream, I said everything I ever wanted to say that I couldn't say in the present because he is somewhere else. And I almost left him in my dream but I didn't. And I woke up so frustrated at myself as to why did I not leave him for sayubf he cared about his friends and family more than me? I don't understand.
Meeka
2016-07-10 04:09:27
0
I had a dream that my first love (who passed away) was arguing with my current boyfriend of 11 years. The argument was about how my spirit will alway be with my first love. My fist love was very adamant about this and wouldnt let my current boyfriend speak. I was present in my dream but i said nothing. What does this mean?
Christina
2019-07-30 17:54:39
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When one dreams about someone who has passed away, that is them visiting you. Your first love as a whole wanted to let you know he is still protecting and watching over you.
Edy
2016-06-19 05:25:05
+3
I dreamed about arguing with some girls to not eat my cake!!
Danielle
2016-06-01 02:05:31
+4
I keep having dreams of me arguing with my partner and shouting some nasty words and him not caring. Although we are great in the waking life no problems or anything. I dont let my dreams bother me but it's happening alot recently.
tanz
2016-10-29 16:03:44
+7
Trust your mind it can feal somethings not right
peggy
2016-03-16 03:36:00
-3
I had a dream last night about me and my husband . I was at a fast food restaurant supossably where he worked and got upset cause they would not get my food and he wanted to get all upset cause I said a few choose words to his coworkers . And when I demanded my money back thats when he came to me not knowing what he said but when I tried to apologize they wanted to get ugly with me . As I was leaving they went out back him his boss and some girl. And he even started getting ugly . So when I went to walk off him and the girl went back inside . Thats when I woke up crying what could this mean.
Courtney
2016-03-01 09:42:48
0
I keep having bad dreams about my fianc cheating on me with his ex and me finding out about it. Recently he chose her over me because he was scared of mine and his relationship again because we've tried to date so many times and it never worked out, then she broke up with him and instantly came to me. For the past 3 months I have been dreaming horrible things about them too back together or talking behind my back and me not knowing . What does that mean? We have arguments about it because it worrys me But he tells me they mean nothing and he doesn't want her any more.
TL
2016-05-07 05:55:22
+2
This means you have trust issues.. You need to figure that out or your relationship will never work.
Me
2016-01-14 04:38:44
-4
I was dreaming , me and my partner was arguing I caught her with someone. She woke me up and I yelled what do you want from me with tears rolling down my face.
Cass
2015-10-13 09:13:31
-5
I literally just got woken up having an argument with my boyfriend where he had gotten another girl pregnant and left me for her although no such situation has happened to us worst nightmare ever I'm still shaking from it
mimi
2015-08-04 15:20:43
-3
I had a dream that I got in to a confrontation with my best friend boyfriend,he and her have not been getting along at all lately me personally I don't think he is the right person for her one reason being is because he has 2 children and it upsets her for different reasons, I also think that he doesn't want her and I to be friends although she would never tell me that.
ahsleigh
2015-04-27 07:15:58
+2
i have a dream of arguing or even to a point that i quarrel with my partner's "paramour". it sounds weird because in real life all i know is that my partner is faithful to me. and also in real life, i don't even know the person i am arguing in that particular dream. In that dream my partner does not claim that i am his partner in front of his paramour. so the arguement started and we fight in front of my partner.
Nu
2015-01-12 16:17:03
-9
My dream question was not answered. I dream of my deceased husband almost 2 or 3 times a week. He has been gone for 8 years and this just started a year ago. Many of the dreams we are arguing.
Yazmin
2013-07-31 18:15:04
+9
Thank You a lot .. Just like in my dream me arguing with an ex Best fried .. Don't know why I came back if this ended a month ago but know I know its just The past.
Comments: Dream Dictionary Arguing
I have a great relationship with my parents too.
For the last year they've gotten too real. I have to stop and really think if we discussed certain issues, or I just dreamed it. I've recently been forced to move back in with them, I want nothing but to get out and stop being a burden. But they don't see me that way, and in a way far too forgiving of my lack of financial independence.
Almost like my dreams are trying to make me act/sound as crazy I feel to the eyes of others during wake.
Also a lot of teeth falling out / surgery dreams. At least those are easy to tell apart from reality...
But he tells me they mean nothing and he doesn't want her any more.
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