A cross dressing dream might really make someone panic, especially someone that professes to be pretty straight and not interested in that short of thing. But remember, just because you have a sexual preference towards the opposite sex doesn't mean that every once in a while you can't dress up in women's clothes or men's clothes depending on your gender. Society probably won't accept you for who you are right away or anything like that, but if you do it enough then you'll be true to yourself and that's what matters. However, you might not even have any desire that you can't think of to dress up like a member of the opposite sex and yet you're still dreaming about it. If you want to know what this means then just keep on reading.
If you have a dream in which you are cross dressing this could be because of a latent homosexual desire that you have. While it is not always related to this, many times a person will experiment sexually like this before they decide on their own sexuality. If you think that this could be true for you then don't try to fight the thought. There are a lot of resources for gay people, and the more people that are actively in favor of gay rights, the better. Don't lie to yourself or you'll be denying the whole cause from the chance to flourish and this is no good.
Sometimes you might have a dream in which you are cross dressing though, and you are absolutely certain that you have no desire to be with someone of the same sex. You are not inclined sexually in the least bit to members of the same sex as you and this is just tough luck. Well, if this is the case for you then this might have to do with being a message about reconnecting with your feminine side. You need to be able to join with that part of yourself. If you are a woman then the dream is about reconnecting with your masculine side.
The thing is, with the popularity of homosexual issues in the media today, some men tend to feel adamantly against embracing their more feminine characteristics and vice versa for fear of being called gay or being lumped into that group. Actually it is because of this fear that gays are having such a tough time in their own lives, because people deny them and refuse to accept them for no reason but fear. Everyone has feminine attributes and masculine attributes and you are not a whole person if you don't exercise both regularly. Remember that next time before you get all angry and crazy at having a dream like that. You should be more understanding and more accepting of yourself. This will mean great things for your future.
If you are dreaming of it you should try it. Be careful though because if you like it it will never go away. Go through fazes where I fight it. Throw all my clothes out. But I always go back and buy more. I just accepted it's who I am
Joni
2018-09-05 14:16:11
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The first time I crossdresed was in the 5th grade. My mother had me to dress as a girl for a Halloween party. I had mixed feelings if embarrassment and excitement. After this incident I would sneak and wear her girdle,garters and thigh highs underneath my jeans and it felt so natural. I am now 50 years old have my own wardrobe of femme clothes but my favorite thing to wear is vasarette high cut shapers. They feel so natural and again I wear them underneath my jeans jeans in a daily basis.. Its a part of myself I enjoy. My mother told me she wished that I had been the girl of the family because of my petite size. She. never knew about my sneaking into her things. I wish I had someone to share my cross dressing side with preferable a male for dating and understanding. Feel free to email me at jj50jon@aol.com. I am from Kentucky and not a hillbilly but want someone to accept me for who I am.
Mike
2018-07-11 04:24:37
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I'm a crossdresser that doesn't crossdress very often because I'm 6 2. Tall and just ashamed to do it more often than not. I have dreams in which im crossdressed and can remember exactly what I was wearing. Than I will see a female within a few days wearing the exact same outfit I dreamt I was wearing!! Creepy! Right? What does it mean?
theDream
2023-12-06 09:19:11
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Firstly, dreaming about crossdressing may reflect your desires, anxieties, or even your exploration of identity. If you feel a yearning to express yourself more through crossdressing but experience shame or fear due to societal norms or your physical appearance, these feelings could manifest in your dreams where you are free to explore without judgment.
The fact that you are a tall individual and feel self-conscious about it might be related to the common societal expectations about gender presentation, where certain styles or outfits are conventionally assigned to certain body types or heights. Your subconscious could be working through these imposed standards, allowing you to express yourself in a way that feels right to you in your dream state.
When it comes to seeing someone wearing the exact outfit from your dream, it could be a mere coincidence, or it might be what's known as a synchronicity – a meaningful coincidence that can feel eerily timely or relevant to your personal experiences. Additionally, it's possible that these outfits are simply popular or in fashion, which increases the chances of seeing someone wearing something similar to what you've imagined.
Moreover, if you're thinking about certain clothes or styles often, you might be more likely to notice them when they appear in real life, a psychological phenomenon known as the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon, or frequency illusion. Once you've encountered a new word, idea, or pattern, your brain seems to spot it everywhere, primarily because you're now more aware of it.
It's also important to understand that there is nothing creepy or wrong about your dreams or the coincidences you've observed. Everyone has unique preferences and ways of expressing themselves. If crossdressing is a part of who you are, embracing it as a natural expression of your identity may be empowering.
Guz
2022-03-18 05:19:05
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means shes a good fit for you
helloooooooo
2017-11-07 15:13:21
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cross-dressing is good, if it relieves stressful feelings and way better than alcohol or becoming too dependent on any form of medication. And if it leads to sexy feelings, then sobeit. It's all good. Afterall most of life's experiences are a learning process.
I would say that I'm in favour of people crossDressing,- regardless of ones gender.
rob
2016-12-07 18:43:36
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I was sexually abused as a kid.I went on for years not thinking about it. I even think I tried to act tougher than I was to cover up my weakness for not fighting back which Ive only recently discovered about myself. My wife had a fling with a good mate and it hurt me to say the least and made me feel weak , less of a man. Ive had a feeling of helplessness which was a similar feeling when being abused. Latley Ive relived my abuse in dreams and often wake up with an erection.I also often deram of crossdressing which usually results in me having to `finish myself off`. Im very worried and have begun to question my sexuality. Im married with kids of my own.
Guz
2022-03-18 05:22:11
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Rob , sorry to hear. Your dreams are yelling out that your wife is going to leave you.
Stephen A
2016-09-27 14:06:29
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I think sometimes this dream might be a message that one feels incomplete and needs to have the company/companionship of the opposite sex to feel complete. I also think that this type of dream might be a result of previous sexual child abuse from the same sex. Maybe the dream contains a subconscious message of desire to repeat the abuse experience in an attempt to understand the reason for the abuse experience. I think therefore the dream may be a message of one having a feeling of being incomplete based on the abuse experience. Last, the dream may be a subconscious cry for help due to the previous child abuse experience. Finally, I think I should state two rhetorical questions. 1.) How many children have grown up with child abuse experiences? 2.) How many people have endured child abuse and never received any treatment for the abuse?
Ozzy
2018-06-20 07:58:13
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I am not sure how a dream of cross dressing could have anything to do with being with someone of the opposite sex? Perhaps a straight man who dreams of cross dressing is wanting to try a gay relationship? I don’t know just my thought and im probably wrong. For me as a gay man who had the same kinda dream i just feel that i might be wanting to cross dress as a sexual experience.
teenage boy
2015-03-14 02:26:21
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I had a dream about cross-dressing last night. I doubt it symbolises anything apart from just a desire to cross-dress which I have been feeling for a while
Sum-Young-Guy
2015-06-18 07:59:57
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I feel you. Had the same dream, want to cross-dress too, too ashamed to do it tho.
Paul
2012-06-18 20:15:48
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I think there can be yet another reason why you might have a dream about dressing up and this can be because you are trying to escape from a situation or situations that you can't handle. Depending on what you are doing in the dream and where you are and who is with you, it may well indicate a desire to deceive.
Comments: Dream Dictionary Cross Dressing
of the family because of my petite size. She. never knew about my sneaking into her things. I wish I had someone to share my cross dressing side with preferable a male for dating and understanding. Feel free to email me at jj50jon@aol.com. I am from Kentucky and not a hillbilly but want someone to accept me for who I am.
The fact that you are a tall individual and feel self-conscious about it might be related to the common societal expectations about gender presentation, where certain styles or outfits are conventionally assigned to certain body types or heights. Your subconscious could be working through these imposed standards, allowing you to express yourself in a way that feels right to you in your dream state.
When it comes to seeing someone wearing the exact outfit from your dream, it could be a mere coincidence, or it might be what's known as a synchronicity – a meaningful coincidence that can feel eerily timely or relevant to your personal experiences. Additionally, it's possible that these outfits are simply popular or in fashion, which increases the chances of seeing someone wearing something similar to what you've imagined.
Moreover, if you're thinking about certain clothes or styles often, you might be more likely to notice them when they appear in real life, a psychological phenomenon known as the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon, or frequency illusion. Once you've encountered a new word, idea, or pattern, your brain seems to spot it everywhere, primarily because you're now more aware of it.
It's also important to understand that there is nothing creepy or wrong about your dreams or the coincidences you've observed. Everyone has unique preferences and ways of expressing themselves. If crossdressing is a part of who you are, embracing it as a natural expression of your identity may be empowering.
I would say that I'm in favour of people crossDressing,- regardless of ones gender.
I also think that this type of dream might be a result of previous sexual child abuse from the same sex. Maybe the dream contains a subconscious message of desire to repeat the abuse experience in an attempt to understand the reason for the abuse experience.
I think therefore the dream may be a message of one having a feeling of being incomplete based on the abuse experience.
Last, the dream may be a subconscious cry for help due to the previous child abuse experience.
Finally, I think I should state two rhetorical questions.
1.) How many children have grown up with child abuse experiences?
2.) How many people have endured child abuse and never received any treatment for the abuse?
For me as a gay man who had the same kinda dream i just feel that i might be wanting to cross dress as a sexual experience.
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