Dream Dictionary Dead boyfriend, Dreaming of Dead boyfriend and what it Means About You

Insomniac I guess 2021-07-14 01:25:04

I'm still having vivid dreams of a deceased ex 18 years later. It's normally just us hanging out, walking around town, cuddling on the couch, just general stuff like it use to be. Lately though there's been less awareness he's dead while dreaming and when I realize it I wake up and feel like it just happened again. They've turned to feeling like nightmares, waking up with a creeping feeling I'm trying to shake off again.

theDream 2023-11-25 03:17:15

Dreams involving a deceased person, particularly someone with whom you've had an intimate relationship, can serve as a powerful emotional canvas where your subconscious mind explores unresolved feelings, memories, and the impact of loss, regardless of how much time has passed. Here's a concise interpretation:

1. Nostalgia and Memory: The presence of your ex in dreams where you're engaged in everyday activities may reflect nostalgia and the replaying of cherished memories. It suggests that the relationship left a significant imprint on your psyche.

2. Processing Loss: The transition from peaceful scenarios to the abrupt realization of his death can symbolize an ongoing internal process of coming to terms with the loss. Your dreams might be a space where you are still reconciling the reality of his absence in your waking life.

3. Emotional Integration: Waking up with unease could indicate that your dream state is allowing you to integrate emotions that you may not be fully addressing while you're awake. The 'creeping feeling' could be the emotional residue from this subconscious work.

4. Sign of Unfinished Business: The recurring nature of the dreams and the shift towards feeling nightmarish might suggest "unfinished business," such as unresolved grief, guilt, or questions about the relationship and its ending that you have not yet fully processed or understood.

Penny 2021-03-23 11:02:57

I have been having dreams about my X boyfriend that was the love of my life even when we broke up I never got over him and after about 12 / 13 years I hadn't heard or seen him I never got over him and Cauld not move on I stayed single the whole time , then one day his picture popped up on Face book and I contacted him we talked for a second long enough for him to tell me i was still the most beautiful woman and he loved my picture , that was it . Then I excepted him as my friend on Facebook then decided I cauld not handle seeing his picture everyday it was really hard for me so I befriend him about a few weeks later I get a call from my brother did you know a so and so and I said Duh and said why ? He said cause he died he killed himself I was devastated my life ended that day !! I thought first it was cause of me then I read what happened on his sons Facebook he was a herion addict he was a fitness guru never would ever do needles or drugs ever he loved his body to much but I heard he was into herion big time . Now I have dreams very often about him and don't know why . We're always friendly and laughing in my dream and sitting and talking . But don't know what about but we're happy . What does this mean ???? I don't want to dream about him anymore but it continues so often .

theDream 2023-11-25 03:18:50

Dreams about a past love, especially one with unresolved emotions and a tragic ending, can be emotionally intense and challenging to process. Given your history with this ex-boyfriend and the circumstances surrounding his passing, here is a potential interpretation of your dreams:

1. Unresolved Feelings: The fact that you never truly got over him and stayed single for years suggests that there were lingering emotional attachments and unresolved feelings within you. Dreams can be a way for your subconscious mind to explore and process these unresolved emotions.

2. Desire for Reconciliation: Your dreams of being friendly and laughing with your ex-boyfriend may indicate a desire for reconciliation or closure in your relationship, even if it is only happening in the dream world. It could represent a subconscious longing to reconnect and find resolution or peace with the past.

3. Yearning for Happiness: The feeling of happiness and contentment when you interact with him in the dream may reflect a deep-rooted desire for happiness and fulfillment that you associated with your relationship in the past. These dreams might be a subconscious exploration of what you believe happiness looks like and how it felt during that particular period of your life.

4. Grief and Guilt Processing: The circumstances surrounding his passing, coupled with your own emotional connection, can create a complex mix of grief and guilt. Dreams can provide a space for you to process and come to terms with these emotions.

If you find these dreams to be distressing or interfering with your daily life, it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or counselor.

Wanda Bennett 2021-02-25 14:15:20

I am having dreams about an old boyfriend. Nearly every night. We dated about 2 years after I graduated high school. I really did care for him. But I have been married had kids and they are grown with grown grandchildren and I divorced and remarried and I never thought about him or trying to find him. I didnt ask him alot of questions when we were dating one I was scared what the answers would be and two I was kinda shy. So I didnt know alot about him or his family. But I have tried to find him and I think he may have past away. And two I think he may have been alot older than I thought. I never ask his age. One of those things I didnt know if I really wanted to know. But why do I keep dreaming of him?

Sharon Davis 2020-02-18 02:14:07

I'm do much confused I had a dream about my boyfriend that's been dead almost 5 years he didn't look the same he didn't act the same I was in the room just me and him when he died I really loved him so much we hade been together for 6years and now I'm in a new relationship with a wonderful man but I still miss mines that died help with an answer what the dream could mean

Debra Hays 2019-12-27 19:22:00

I dream about my first love all the time i wake up crying cause i loved him i have a 42 yr old daughter that is his

izzy 2019-10-20 02:31:31

my boyfriend recently passed away and when I dream about him I can't find him, I'm shouting his name and looking everywhere until one night I had a dream and I found him and he told me to stop looking for him and to behave myself and that's all he told me and then disappear . I'm confused because like what does that even mean . why couldn't I find him in the first place and why would he tell me only that

Tine 2019-04-18 00:59:03

Hi. I dreamt last night that I got a boyfriend but he was shot down to death. It was flashed as a yellow light strucking down to him. After the light, he turned into ashes.

The thing was, I wasn't very sure and it wasn't very clear that the boyfriend that I saw in my dream was my real-life boyfriend. But in the dream, I do recognize him a lot but after waking up. I guess I couldn't. It has really bothered me though

Also, the dream was about multiple deaths of different people. First, I dreamt that I had a baby (but I wasn't seen pregnant) but lost her during the time I was about to carry her but my boyfriend in the dream was trying to pick her up in the wrong way and I think her throat was slit.

Second, I saw my real-life boyfriend's brother in the coffin and when I got closer, I noticed that he was just snoring and was moving so I tried to open up the coffin but 1 person told me not to open it.

Third, the story about how I lost my boyfriend in the dream

Fourth, I dreamt some other people dying. But I do have a hard time remembering those people 🙁

Fifth, I dreamt about my students (I am a teacher by the way) death. In the dream, i recognized 1 student but I failed to recognize the rest.

It really has bothered me a lot. Please help 🙁 thank you

anonymous 2019-03-06 03:51:36

My boyfriend cheated on me , I left him after I found out
three months after I left him he died because he had two cancer and I can't Even forgive myself for that and I miss him so much
I don't know what to do .he Died three years ago Last night again I dreamed about him
He Shattered me into pieces after three years I still can't date with a guy I don't trust anyone he broke me

jafco13 2017-11-22 03:58:13

I lost the love of my life January 28, 2013. It's been almost 4 years and I dream about him a lot but last night I dreamt we met again and we spent time getting to know each other all over again and talking about what we did right and wrong in our relationship. We discovered we should be together always no matter that he wasn't on Earth any longer. I do love him so much, miss him very much and am part of his family...whom I love very much as well.

Lost soul 2017-10-18 08:59:11

My Bf died 3 months ago I currently have dreams that he's still here, like I'll wake up next to him or like last night we was having a conversation about something that happened after his death, I be feeling like I wanna be w/him even after death, is my feelings for him colliding w/my dreams like I rather live in the past cause I know he's not gonna be in my future, is that why I have dreams that he's still here??

Robyn 2019-01-20 03:26:09

Hello
I am a psychic empath and I am clairaudient and clairsient
I was clairvoyant but my chakras shut down
When you dream of a loved one who has passed away, you are actually being visited by their spirit.
It is a visit

Valarie 2020-02-18 11:41:25

Hi, I keep dreaming of my deceased boyfriend. This last dream we were robbing a house of a friends parents which the things were got were actually his. Then we knew he was dying and he made the most passionate love to me and we cried together knowing he was dying. WhT does this mean?

Deborah 2019-08-10 04:06:23

I believe you are correct.

Patty Burger 2017-07-12 18:28:04

Talk to a professional. Greif counseling. No other way. I am about to follow my own advice...

I have grieved over the death of a boyfriend for over a decade. Ashamed, I have even concealed this from my own shrink. Partly because of the short duration of the relationship, and partly because it has dictated my life choices ever since. I regularly visited his grave even 10 years after. Plagued by recurrent dreams of him; waking up miserable, losing him again and again and again, over the last decade.

I have never felt about anyone the way I felt about him; before or since. He "rocked my world" when he entered it, and "wrecked" it when he exited. Not his fault at all. Highway accident that left him, or rather left me, with a closed-coffin. If there were anyway to keep pursuing a person after they've gone... I pursued him right up to the gates of Heaven; where I pressed the gates, reaching through the bars.

Stacey ring 2017-05-11 11:09:15

Yes I'm the same dreaming of my late partner Alot and there always about him coming home from treatment wnd not being happy with me it's as if we're always arguing but I can barely see face but it's him om actually waking up in tears y would this be there always the same bit in different places?

Jenna 2017-04-05 22:47:01

My bf dead 3 years ago. I'm always dreaming I can not get close to him, be it be he will drive off before I get there or he don't want to see me. What dose this mean.

Justina 2017-03-20 19:03:57

My boyfriend died about 5 months ago due to a horrible bikong accident.. ive been having dreams of him a lot. Some are really good and feel so real that ill be crying in my dream from how much i miss him. Like that i know hes dead in my dream but i wake up already in tears as well. But recently ive been having bad dreams about him and im not really sure what it means.

Rosie 2017-01-26 21:23:38

I have dream with my dead boyfriend but it's a weird dream everytime something is going on in my life and its not beneficial for me I dream with .. but the weird part is that I know it's him but I see him with someone else face and it's always the same person it's like if I'm dreaming with him I see him my dream changes location and then it's someone else .. it's like he abandon my dream and it's feels so good that I don't ever want to wake up he is then love of my life the one that got away

Rafiq 2016-10-03 09:59:48

I lost my exboyfriend almost three years ago.. he have never visit me but for some reason last night he came to me... I love him and he loved me... but in my dream we were at like a family get together with HIS family. ..who I don't deal with or even know some of them a few of my family members.. but we was happy he held my hand it seem so real we were laughing we were all over each other.. it really seen like he never missed a beat.. I really love and miss him so much...I want him back so bad... please help me understand what it meant...

Mk 2016-07-25 00:41:38

An ex bf of mine committed suicide a year ago and I'm currently in a new relationship for a year now but I still highly love my ex but the past couple of weeks I would have dreams about him usually he would be "missing" or run away when I try to find him and one time he told me I need to focus on my relationship .....when I wake up I'm upset or just plain confused...what does this mean

Damsel in Distress 2015-08-24 06:09:30

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I dramt my ex was in my bed with his exgirlfriend I felt so betrayed I threw her out and she landed on the fence and died, the weird thing was that same week my cousin dramt I was dragging a huge box out to my truck and she saw my ex's body in there, & that I said he commited suicide. Could there be a message in those dreams.?

brit 2015-06-11 20:02:43

I have only dreamt once of my deceased boyfriend and it has been years since I've dreamt of him till today. I am in a current relationship and the happiest I've been in a long time but this dream was so real and has me thinking a lot about my deceased boyfriend. Why is this happening?

HELP 2015-02-03 17:00:20

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I have had several dreams of my deceased daughters father. He was killed before she was 2 y/o and now she's 24. Why do I keep dreaming of him? I truly loved him but we nvr got a chance due to his untimely death...

alise 2015-05-14 04:36:11

In what way does he enter your dreams? Is your daughter still a young girl, or is she 24? Does he change as you grow older? Does he speak to you or is he a vision? It can be comforting if you understand he's with you, but it can be disruptive as well, especially if you have moved on with your life. Do you want his visits - your dreams of him to stop?If you do, there are healing practices, hopefully near you, where you may spiritually and finally let go and let his spirit be at ease. Love binds us. If you can tell him that you and his daughter are well and he can rest without worry, then perhaps you can all sleep better. Let go. And give him permission to let go, as well.

akasha 2014-11-16 06:22:45

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My question is, is he really paying me a visit in my dreams? Or is it something else like it's about my future?

Thanks.

Hanna Mae 2014-09-15 17:20:40

I Understand, but it is the first time that I Dreamed about him, after he died...I could'nt understand what did he want to say..

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