Virgo Cancer Compatibility Horoscope

Hi all of you Cancer ladies out there I am a Virgo male and have a Cancer woman in my life who has retreated. She is not fighting just hurt through a recent death and asked for me to give her space. i am happy to do this but want her to know that I know what she is going through and just want to be there for her. Any advice please

It's commendable that you want to support and be there for your Cancer partner during this difficult time. Giving her the space she has requested shows respect and understanding, which is essential during times of grief. Here are some suggestions on how to navigate this situation:

1. Respect her boundaries: Continue to give her the space she needs. This means refraining from excessive contact or pressuring her to open up before she is ready. Let her lead the way in terms of when and how much she wants to share.

2. Express your support: While giving her space, make sure she knows you are there for her. Send her a heartfelt message or a small gesture to let her know you're thinking of her and that you understand she is going through a difficult time.

3. Be patient and understanding: Grief takes time, and everyone processes it differently. Understand that her emotions may fluctuate, and there may be moments when she retreats further or needs more time alone. Patience and understanding are key during this process.

4. Listen actively: When she is ready to talk, be an active and compassionate listener. Allow her to express her feelings and emotions without judgment or trying to rush the healing process. Show empathy and validate her experiences.

5. Offer practical support: Beyond emotional support, consider offering practical help. This can include helping with daily tasks, running errands, or offering to be there if she needs assistance with anything specific. Practical gestures of support can be valuable during times of grief.

6. Be adaptable: Be flexible and understanding as her needs may change. Grief is a journey, and sometimes there may be ups and downs. Adapt to her emotional state and be there for her, whether she needs comfort, distraction or someone to simply listen.

Remember that everyone grieves differently, so it's crucial to respect her unique process. While it may be difficult to see her in pain, offering your consistent support and understanding can go a long way. Be patient and let her know you are there whenever she is ready to reach out and lean on you during this challenging time.

If you want to be with her....continue to be there when she says she needs you and even sometimes when she doesn't say it. As long as you both feel the same way about each other.

I'm a Cancer woman....if I liked/loved you...that's what I would want

I am a cancer woman and i know that we are moody. But this is not a mood swing. She is hurt and is in her shell to nurse herself back to health and when she feels healed enough, and that it is safe enough, she will emerge slowly back to her normal self. Give her time and do not poke at her. This will cause her to not feel it safe to come out of that shell she hides in. Be kind and loving and let her do what shes gotta do.she will snap out of it, and probably rather quickly.

I'm a cancer woman and feel that hands-down the Virgo man is the best partner for us. So, you know how you need your time and space to organize your thoughts and goals. Well, the cancer woman, when feeling overwhelmed with her emotions, needs time and space to come to terms with her emotions, so she can stay rational in the situation. She won't be this way for the entire length of the grieving process, which typically takes one year, but she needs to do this during the initial stage so she can find her strength again. When she comes back out of her shell, it will be important for you talk to her about her grieving and let her know that it is understandable and necessary, and that you are there for her when she needs someone to listen. Don't try to fix anything (because in this case, you can't anyway), instead, just listen. This will help her open up to you further in regard to her feelings surrounding the death, and because you as a Virgo male are such a great listener, you end up being exactly what she needs. You'll help her get through this easier and quicker by being your logically self and through the use of your listening abilities.

I am a cancer woman dating a virgo man... He was recently married for 7years in an unhappy marriage. We both meet each other at ruff times in our life's but non the less we were there for each other and now it's been 9months later... He has changed on me tremendously it hasn't been for the good... Everything was wonderful in the beginning chemistry sex conversation he's caring we can talk about anything but now things have changed... We agreed and set boundaries in the beginning of our relationship so that we would not disrespect each other on any levels. He went out with 1 girl I accepted him back now it's another girl & he's went as far as sending her$. I confronted him & he says it's his money he can do what he want so I decided to leave b/c I couldn't keep taking the disrespect it's been 4 days since I been gone he's asking me to come back saying he loves me it was a mistake... & even though his good has out weighed his mistakes I still love him it I don't think I should've so easily willing to take him back and go home & work on it with him! I love him so much have been threw so much with him and I know he loves me to... Is it just evident that all men cheat at some point in their relationship and as a woman we have to accept the hurt and take the man back b/c of love... 🙁 I'm so confused I don't want to leave him but I want to stand my ground because if I make it easy on him this time I feel it will only get worst! But as a Virgo male I know they love the attention they like that type of shit but they shouldn't get enjoyment off of hurting their partner just to see the lengths the cancer woman will go to secure & fight for what she wants... For us cancers are strong.. Sorry to ramble but I really just need a little advice... Anyone out there reading????

Stand your ground. RESPECT is bigger than LOVE. If he RESPECTS you he will make the changes and not hurt you on purpose.

No you shouldn't take him back my fiance now is the third Virgo man I have been with not on purpose they were just sweet and sensitive the first two cheated and were immature my fiance is a real man. There are real men out there you don't need to settle on someone who treats you like an option

I am a cancer female and for some reason I've loved two men in my life like real love and they both are virgos. I am like attached to virgos we kinda compliment each other. I am with a Virgo now and he is the greatest I've ever met the down part is we are in a long distant relationship so we travel a lot I believe he is worth it no one else could ever get me to do a long distant love relationship but with him the chemistry is too strong I have no choice. All I can say is VIRGO CANCER love is serious.. You just have to know how to be strong cancers that is what virgos need a strong female that can tolerate the Virgos mind and actions, meaning the Virgo can drift needs space cancers love attention we have to know the Virgo is thinking of you even when they don't reach out. I want to marry my Virgo

Omgoodness I completely agree with you because I am dating a virgo right now. He really confused me in the beginning heck he still does lol. but I had to realize that's just how he is and the best thing I can do for him is to give him space but be there when he needs me always.
Also side note past relationships can ruin current relationships. Especially if your past relationship left you hurt and feeling like you cant trust your current partner.

I am a cancer woman with a Virgo male. I met my Virgo male at a really odd time in my life were I was still finding who I was. I actually had a short lived relationship to his childhood friend. Him and I had a connection right away (friendship wise). After I had broken it off with his friend him and I did not talk. He had messaged me and we started talking again. We both were strictly friends and had never been inapporpriate. We were true friends and he had always been respectful to me. Although we never looked at each other more than friends all of our other friends and family always told us we had too much chemistry to be just friends. We always ignored this and I litterally could not even imagine kissing him!!! Although I admired him as a man and wanted his attributes in others... Goal orrietated, funny, caring etc... He is very to himself and isn't your average joe.. He didn't drink and is a goody toe shoes.. But can handle any situation. I was the opposite The time if you could pick a song for me it would be girls just want to have fun.. I was sick of men and didn't ever want to get married. At this time we were 20 when I begged him to go out with me with a couple of other old friends. He finally agreed.."Fine, but only 10 minutes!!". Needless to say he is a light weight and got drunk pretty fast. Fast forward he couldn't walk so I helped him to the me s bathroom.. No one was in there and he couldn't hold himself up.. I thought he was going to puke so brought him in the bathroom stall... He just told me to hug him. So I stood there hugging him forever it seemed like. He started laughing and saying I want to tell you something but I'm scared.. At the time he was I a not serious relationship.. He then admitted he liked me and just had figured it out... There is way more to the story but nothing inapporpriate happened. He was always a gentleman. It was like a huge bomb went off... But he was exactly what I was looking for in a man he just so happened to be my best friend... I just didn't want to destiny that. Well ever since that day we have been litterally inseperatable, there hasn't been a day we have been apart. We now have a 1 1/2 year old daughter and are going to be 25 this year. Don't get me wrong there are obsticals with every relationship. Ours are however very minor because we have 99.9 percent of the same morals and such. But when we do fight we are both very bull headed and his favorite thing to tell me is that I'm overly sensitive... Which I am haha. He can be cold and harsh with his words but in the end makes a lot of sense. Us cancers we are very sensitive and emotional... But I think one thing that attracts us to the Virgo is his harshness.. It's challenging and he makes sense.. We just don't like it for the time being 🙂!! But this is my story. I wouldn't want to be with anyone else and our relationship is amazing.

I'm a Cancer woman. I met a Virgo man only 3 months ago. The first Virgo I've dated, and "wow", the most amazing, caring and thoughtful man I've ever met! We were quickly comfortable with each other and we can talk forever. Sexually he's a little more reserved but he always tells me that I've "put a spell on him"!
As a Cancer, I try very hard to not get too attached bc that's ruined other relationships, but sometimes my Virgo man takes that as though I don't wanna be with him!
Any advice from Virgo men? Should I tell him I'm just doing it bc I'm trying to make him happy?

I'm a Virgo Guy. we are a quiet figure. he needs space sometimes. but he want to be assured of your security. being too attached will bore him. stay cool.

I met my Virgo 4 months ago. We had our ups and downs, but all in all we have a great relationship. He reassures me that we will continue to grow from our mistakes and become better partners. He is a great communicator. He is the most caring and thoughtful person I have ever met. He can be harsh with his comments, but 99% of the times he has a good point.
My advice to you is don't let your past relationships ruin what could be something wonderful with this guy. Don't ever let him doubt you and your intentions. Speak from your heart and show your true emotions. He will melt like a butter in your arms.

I'm a Virgo man and I've had a serious crush on a cancer women, I've had this crush for over 10 years, we are both married,I know that the feelings are the same and we are brother in law and sister in law

There is a virgo man in my life that I've known for over a decade. In all truth I've always been attracted to him, but he was married to a friend of mine and I never would have acted on it as it would have been totally inappropriate and a betrayal to my friend. That was a line I would not cross! They divorced about six years ago and he was in the military and deployed several states away. I was so disappointed because I adored him - his personality, his intellect, his kind and gentle nature. I have such admiration for him. Always have. I was happy just to have him as a friend and thought that was all it would ever be, but thought I'd never see him again since he was up north and I felt awkward about trying to contact him. Summer of this past year I discovered he was living back in my town and had the opportunity to reconnect with him. I was thrilled! I was also in a very troubled relationship, so again, any pursuit of him was inappropriate and any relationship would have to remain a friendship. Months went by and then he popped up at an art show I was working. I was over the moon excited to see him again! I made it a point to try to foster the ties of friendship with him, dropping hints about when and where he might be able to bump into me again should he so desire. He sent me silly texts here and there to stay in touch and then again showed up at a weekly event I was working to pop in and say hello. He brought me some items he had collected that he thought I could use for display. Such a thoughtful man. During that visit, I mentioned something off-handedly about wanting to make some bronze cast acorns. He later showed up at my work with a bag full of acorns that he had collected from his yard. I felt like he had brought me flowers! I later told myself that I was being ridiculous and I was just starved for attention (current bad relationship) and making too much of it. He's such a kind and generous person to everyone in his circle and I told myself that's all it was. we stayed in touch via text messages mostly, but recently I was frustrated due to the verbal and emotional abuse of my current partner. Since most of my friends have been run off by my current man I no longer have anyone to turn to for emotional support, so In frustration I reached out to him and then instantly regretted it, thinking 'well, that's it. He won't want to hear my drama and will probably never talk to me again.' I was wrong, not only did he text back but he really reached out to me. He's always been a good listener and he offered his ear. We met for coffee and he allowed me to vent and was very kind and supportive. While a girl might make something out of this I recognize that this is his nature. Always giving of himself to his friends and loved ones and always there for them. Again I told myself this was all it was. He stayed in touch, encouraged me, supported me and offered assistance in every way possible. Even financial if that's what I needed to get out of this abusive relationship. Of course, I am reluctant to accept financial help because I don't want that to become an issue between us or ever have him think that I'm sticking around for that. I'm here because 1) I need a good friend right now, and 2) I'm really crazy about him, always have been, and wonder if in the future when I have this bad relationship behind me (which I am working diligently on- it's complicated) something could possibly come of it. I feel like he trusts me, because he has opened up to me and shared parts of his painful relationship history with me too. But again, everything is on the level. No inappropriate behavior from either of us. I wouldn't dream of it. He's not the kind of guy you ever want to cheat with - he's the kind of guy you want a CHANCE with. I adore and admire him so much. Have I said that already? :::sigh::: Anyway, I find myself wondering every day if any of his kindness and attention could be an indication that there's some kind of mutual interest. I wouldn't act on my feelings until I've put my present relationship behind me, but the curiosity is killing me. Can anyone offer some insight for me here? Could these be signs of mutual interest?

Hi I'm also a cancer woman ironically enough been in a similar situation I was also in a bad relationship same abuse type thing. stayed friends for a long time although it was long distance. I fell for him from the start but I did well at keeping it platonic for nearly 3 years recently I had talked to him about it and he was suprisingly so understanding and just let me completely open up to him and was so supportive and made it known that he cared ect.. so ever since we started talking about that we'd been having deeper and more important conversations until he finally just said "why don't you just admit that you're in love with me?" I was shocked he made a move... well I was 70% sure that he loved me back but I wasn't positive so I hadn't said anything..... anyways so he said it's about time and it honestly made me so happy. So use your intuitive skills cancer girl! Go with your gut and ignore the doubts.

Cancer lady here, I'm very much in love with my Virgo man. We have been together so far for 4yrs.

We are both cautious people & I'm especially not too friendly with men I meet at booze filled parties. However, as the night went on we began to talk. I'm a goofball & he was very easy to make great conversations & jokes with. Fortunately for us we still have the same amusing talks.

I'm pretty thick skinned for a cancer but if we both get too caught up with work or friends without having our own time together I become more sensitive about his sharp tongue.

My advice to virgo men:
is to baby cancer when she is down rather than lash at her to be productive. It doesn't work. We are often stubborn. Give her a few kisses & cuddles, reassurances of love and she'll be back on her feet in an instance!
I also recommend coddling when she is crying or throwing a fit. You mite want to make your own statements serious so you won't but I know when I'm upset it calms me down much faster to be held & kissed. Do this often & she'll mirror your actions. It's part of the fluidity of water signs. If you yell, she'll more likely yell back. Show love even in the worst of fights & she'll be reminded to show it back.

i love my girl very much - but we fight on a daily base-ess.... be it money / work around the house / time 2gether or what ever - i get tired of telling her i am leaving and only leave over night - to me its are communicatition / and the people around us dont give us time . . . .some day i may not ever come back - please help

The best to do is to end the relationship and just be friends, I was in a relationship like that, we have two kids together and now we are really good friends, I can never see my self Going Back to her again, or it will just carry on or even get worse.