Virgo Scorpio Compatibility Horoscope

The compatibility between a female Virgo and a male Scorpio can be an intense and transformative union. Both signs possess depth and can form a strong emotional connection, but there are also challenges to navigate. Let's explore the potential pros and cons of this combination:

Pros:
1. Deep Emotional Connection: Both Virgo and Scorpio are deep-feeling signs, and when they come together, they can form a profound emotional bond. They have the ability to understand and support each other on a deep level, creating a strong foundation for a committed relationship.

2. Shared Values of Loyalty and Commitment: Both signs value loyalty and commitment in relationships. When in a partnership, they are likely to be faithful and dedicated to each other. This shared value can create a strong and lasting bond between them.

3. Intuitive Understanding: Virgos are known for their analytical nature, while Scorpios possess strong intuition. This combination can lead to a deep understanding and almost telepathic connection between the two partners. They can anticipate each other's needs and provide the necessary support.

4. Growth and Transformation: Both signs have a profound desire for growth and transformation. Virgo seeks personal improvement and strives for perfection, while Scorpio is known for its transformative nature and desire for self-discovery. Together, they can push each other to evolve and achieve their fullest potentials.

Cons:
1. Intensity and Power Struggles: Both Virgo and Scorpio have intense personalities, which can sometimes lead to power struggles and conflicts within the relationship. Their strong wills may clash and create challenges in finding a balance of power and control.

2. Communication Differences: Virgo tends to be more analytical and practical in communication, while Scorpio can be more emotionally charged and secretive. This difference in communication styles can lead to misunderstandings and difficulties in expressing emotions and needs.

3. Potential for Jealousy: Scorpios are known for their intense emotions, including jealousy and possessiveness. This can sometimes trigger Virgo's insecurities and intensify their own need for control and reassurance. Establishing trust and open communication is crucial to navigating this potential challenge.

4. Overthinking and Criticism: Virgos have a tendency to overanalyze and be overly critical of themselves and others, while Scorpios can be sensitive to criticism. This combination can lead to a cycle of overthinking and criticism that can strain the relationship if not managed effectively.

In summary, the compatibility between a female Virgo and a male Scorpio can be passionate and transformative, with the potential for deep emotional connection and personal growth. However, challenges may arise due to differences in communication styles, power struggles, and a propensity for intensity. Both partners need to be willing to work on mutual understanding, open communication, and learning to navigate potential emotional triggers. With effort and commitment, a Virgo-Scorpio union has the potential to be a transformative and powerful partnership.

Reading through the same overtone in almost all comments and having gone through the ordeal myself, but at the other end, I wanted to share my thoughts...I am a Virgo Sun, Virgo Moon guy (Double Earth) who broke up with a Scorpio Sun, Cancer Moon girl (Double Water) a few weeks back after dating for a year. It was magical. It was surreal. It was too good to be true. And it was true! But then, a few months in, the darkness of Pluto started showing its ugly head. She had this fear that she would lose me. She loved me that much. Too deep. So deep that I can tell you that no Double Virgo will probably ever have the emotional ability to receive, accept, understand and reciprocate that depth of love. You see, love for a Virgo Moon is in the brain. We process emotion practically. And my brain couldn't handle all of that emotion. It was a very heavy experience. Even for a Virgo. And then, this fear she had of losing me led to her possessiveness and jealousy. This led to a state of lack of trust and basic freedom. I realised that trust begets trust. We Virgos have our own set of insecurities and worries and our own trust issues. We basically don't want to be given any reason or situation which will cause us to question our own trust on you. A slightest thing can create a destruction in our heads. And that's what had happened. Notice how I always end up referring to my brain and never my heart! It's not that we don't have feelings. Oh we really do have deep feelings. It's that although we are ruled by the master of communication, Mercury, we Virgos have a crazy tough time expressing our feelings. We show our love through action, by doing things to make life easy, whereas the water signs show love through empathy and affection. This was also difficult for me to appreciate. As actions that depict love resonate better with me rather than words. Although I knew and respected the fact that if a Scorpio is telling me those words, it's really a big deal for her and she probably might never say them to any other guy, maybe ever. But still, it was tough for me. I can go on, but what I would really request all you Scorpios out there trying to win your Virgo, please try to up your practical game, try to appreciate the fact that we give you advice to make you better and not to criticise or demean who you are or what you've achieved. And please, try to pick up some practicality around the house. Some help in real actions would go a long way to help connect with your Virgo better, rather than words of love or emotional tears. We respect it, but really it doesn't connect with us as much as plain action and being practical. Even in life in general. Trust us and understand that we feel deeply too. We love you too. But we just can't express it the way you do! So you gotta be sure. You'll find it in the way the Virgo takes care of you through simple day to day things that make your life easier. Small actions or gestures. And don't smother your Virgo and make it a heavy emotional experience. Give him his space and he'll come running to you. I would really encourage you to spend time getting to know Virgos, instead of exacting revenge on them. Awareness and understanding leads to effective communication. So you gotta put some effort there instead of assuming things just because your intuition is super awesome. I personally would recommend Astrology Guy on YouTube, Cafe Astrology Synastry report, AstroReveal (don't miss the fatal attraction report), Anna Kovach's 30 little secrets of Virgo and of course GotoHoroscope! If I've hurt someone, I apologise. I only intend to share and help. It's a rough road ahead for me, but I know it is not even comparable to what she must be going through now. I really do wish the best for her. She was a great gal, but this was the best for both of us and I had to do this for the sake of both our lives. I hope she will understand some day and forgive me. I wish her and all Scorpios good luck and a fulfilling life. As someone rightly said, try a Piscean or Cancerian for a better emotional response. But remember, Sun sign is just the tip of the iceberg. You gotta do your homework to be fully aware and then make it happen. Good luck!

I am a virgo woman I live with a scorpio man we've been through a lot. 11 years and I don't no I love him and he kicked me out 2 yrs ago I am still here helping him he's never Been with anyone this long in his life . hoping for a get back together time . And heal

How can you be so desperate? Just move on girl. There are better matches for you out there, capricorn, taurus. Kick this shitty scorpio man out of your life and fucking move on.

Scorpio women: move on!!! They aren’t worth it. Go find a Cancer man who will love you for all you are! Trust me I have 11 years with a Virgo man. Yes it’s only pain, when all you want to do is love him.

Okay so I am a Scorpio women. I just started dating this Virgo man. Things have been really great so far it's just been over a month. I have always been so good at reading men, but this man is definitely a hard one to read! i didn't even think he liked me that much honestly and then out of the blue he wanted me to meet his family and his daughter.. he has even asked me to move in with him..I'm not even kidding. He always insists on picking me up. I was with my family on New Years and he stayed sober and drove 45 minutes to come and get me at 2 in the morning just so he got to hold me...I got sick and he made me soup and babied me! He is so kind!! He makes me feel so calm around him which I really like, I am usually such an intense person I'm really drawn to this man. I'm really hoping it works out!

I'm a Scorpio woman and I've been in a relationship with a Virgo man for 5 years. I've known many virgos (both man and woman) they are veryyyy simple. They love to be in a stable relationship with woman (or man) who offer a balance, smart conversations and simplicity. This means you can't be too bossy all the time, you have to be ambitious, independent, respectful and a great listener. Being a great listener means being a person who can observe their actions (they don't talk about what they want or how they feel) and in turn make an effort to bring forth what you learned about them without them saying a word. For example watching their favourite show so you have something to talk about. They notice your ENTIRE personality traits because they love hard but avoid showing you how much they notice you because they fear rejection - a great deal. So you have to be the person to do it first, what happens on their part is worth the wait. Speaking of wait....not all Virgos are the same and if they don't show you love from the get go...if they aren't DYING to talk to you (in their own shy way) then forget it and move one. Virgo man go after what they want right away and if you chase when the don't want you, you lose their respect. Which is veryyy important to them. They care about how they are seen and also how you are seen..meaning... how they see you. They hate people who are over the top lazy and loud. They want it all because they think they are amazing but are humble enough to know they will lose you if they slip up. Sex is very important to them too, but they don't know how to go about it until they are comfortable. So you need to be honest. All the time and if they run off or cheat, move the fuck on and don't waste your time. They want a lady with confidence and wit. It seems like a lot to ask, but if you think they are worth it, don't stop trying. Be smart and know when to bow out or push through. It's not the end of the world, and there's a whole lot of zodiac signs to try if it doesn't work out (kidding).

I am a Scorpio woman who & I have reconnected again with my childhood sweet heart Virgo man after 20 years & we had found each other 3 or 4 times randomly coming back together between ages of 13 & 23.
Even now after we have both been in failed marriages & have been out on dates he still is hard to read & show his emotions. We just keep ending up finding each other but it's mostly a friendship connection as he doesn't seem as sexually driven than other guys I have been with. I still can't work him out!

I'm a Scorpio woman and I just started seeing a Virgo guy. Of all the guys I dated, he's the only one that I can't tell what he is thinking. I really like him a lot.
(Whenever I text him...I always feel like I'm bothering him and he says no I'm not and that's all.) Is there any way to know if he is really into me or am I just wasting my time ?

Look I myself am dating a virgo guy.... We don"t get to talk much through social media like facebook or whatsapp, rather he tries to meet me every now and then, 'coz he remains really busy everyday. and if he is really interested to communicate - either he'll call or send you a text message out of the blue.... So, just be patient enough to handle him.. too much fuss can make things worse.

Is is exactly how it is for me and this Virgo I'm currently dating I always feel like I'm interrupting him but no matter what he's doing I don't seem to be bothering him lol I also feel like I talk to much he's so quiet I think he's just shy things are going smooth so far

Hi I've been with my .ale virgo for 11 years off and on yes!! We have both tried to move on. He has the extra baggage and crazy baby mama to top it off! But WE are each others Hearts! I. Love him with every breath, w have lost a son, let's just say God has been the reason we haven't given up on each other. I'm almost positive we are.going to get married soon! An finally start our family. I'm a female scorpion we don't give up when we really love . Someone. We are each others equals. God bless and good Luck!

Ok...so I'm a scorpio female and I have this Virgo man in my life...supposedly we are just friends...but being his friend is like running a marathon...I don't know how he truly feels about me...I dated a Virgo in the past and I fell in love with him...which is something I don't do...but our breakup tore me apart...I still think about him....but I messed up with him...or at least I feel like I did...so with my new Virgo I'm trying to do things a lil different...but he won't open up to me....I asked him would I b over stepping my boundaries if I told him I was feelin him and he said nawl u good....correct me if I'm wrong but that made me feel like he was leaving the door open....he never said he felt the same but when he is around me he talks to me...we talk about whatever comes to mind and he gets upset if he sees me talking to someone else...and I feel vice versa....but he won't tell me how he truly feels...even if he doesn't feel the same way I do I can respect that...but on everything I can feel a connection between us...it's deep...but because he won't tell me how he feel it's driving me crazy inside...sometimes I feel like I'm stalking him....I kno I did kind of push him away a ill but it's cus I really like him...I keep praying but it's like god is ignoring me...

U messed up the first virgo, he left, then u pushed the 2nd virgo a lil away. U feel that chasing a virgo is like running a marathon...hmmmm !

Our condition almost same. Idk too his feeling toward me. But he do jealous when I hang out or chat with another man. We rarely meet each other, but he do chat me once a month. He always disappear and reappear again. I think I should move on,but I can't do that...

I've dated...off and on, mind you, a Virgo man for 3 years and they aren't very expressive like we are. I've learned to watch his habits and expressions in order to learn him. It's not what a Virgo says, it what they do that shows if they care. To be with a Virgo man, you have to be mild mannered. Scorpio women, because we are emotional, tend to fly off the handle and it turns Virgo men off. They're more subtle. I love him a lot but right now, our official title is "friends". I have just tonight given him an ultimatum that we either do or don't at this point. Normally in the past, I would yell, call him out his name and cry when he would do things I didn't agree with and it pushed him further away. Now, I speak to him and express myself in a way that he appreciates and he opens up. Even though he doesn't say it, he appreciates it. I only know this because of how he responds, not because he says so. So if you really love him, be patient and cool. Open up, but don't be pushy. Do your own thing, but show him you care. Virgo men are attracted to strong women and scorpio women are. However, they also love women who are more mild mannered. This is where a lot of Scorpio Women have challenges. I wish you and your bio the best!

I am in the exact same situation net know how u feel

This was very interesting. I am a Scorpio woman and have been dealing with a Virgo guy for the past 6 months. Sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy because I know I don't fall for people easily and I'm completely captivated by him. When I'm around him it feels almost karmic but he isn't really expressive and most times I feel like I'm into someone who doesn't really view me the same way. I'm very strategic and analytical and find myself trying to figure out ways to get closer to his guarded soul. I'm very patient but am wondering if he isn't worth my patience, I would hate to look up a year from now and find myself feeling the same way I do now. Most men are easy to read, why are these guys so complicated for us Scorpios?!

Virgos are worth the wait. Let them teach you patience: They don't trust easily..

Hi Dana,
This is Frances. I just want to say your advise is completely right. I did not call him and found our today that he is already in a new relationship. My heart is shattered and I'm trying my hardest not to stoop to his level by seeking revenge. I know this experience is taught me to hold my cards closer and as much as I am an open and honest person I have very little trust for anyone right now. It makes me sick to my stomach as I felt he was the most genuine guy and caring person and he was always seemed as truly happy in our relationship as I was. I'm angry that a 36 year old man could not have the decency to approach the situation and tell me how it is. He has caused so much more hurt and pain by going behind my back and pretending like he wanted to be friends afterwards as if there was no intention of being with anyone for a while... Yes I am heart broken because I thought there was still hope for us. I feel completely delusional like everything that had happened between us was a fragment of my imagination. WTF would he meet my family and make me a part of his and say things about our future (not that long ago), talk about marriage (not that long ago) and then take off with someone else? I loved him on every level and am freaking out about how I am going to deal with this. I want to remain my normal confident, happy and content self, but I feel like this guy has totally f*cked me over and right now I want revenge.
Some one please help, I am seriously too good to deserve this.

Hi Vico,
My Virgo Man and I have also just split up just recently. We were about to move in together and it was meant to be a happy time, but he became suddenly distant towards me. So I confronted the situation and he said it was work, our different ideas but he still wanted to try for a happy future together.

I must add that up until this point we never argued in our relationship and we always felt loved.

Then when I left (we have been living in different states due to studies since the start of this year) he became distant again. No verbalizing 'I love you' etc. So I spat it... which I rarely do since he tends to keep me calm... but I couldn't take the uncertainty and coldness anymore. In our last conversion he told me he lost the love we had and doesn't see a future together.

The only explanation I got for his doubt was that our families are different, yet it was never a problem before so WTF? Mind you I was calm and he was crying.... which is completely opposite to how we normally are around each other.

He told me I can call him whenever I want too because he still cares, but I said that won't happen. It's been almost 1 month since we spoke that day. Although I'm very focused to move on, I cry every night b/c my heart won't let go of him.

Anyway back to your situation, coming from a Scorpio Woman, the best advice I could give would be to just listen to her and hear her out. Try not to criticize her about anything (we already know what you think about us, but we are more interested in your feelings) and if she can be honest with you as to what she really needs, then you will know if you can make each other happy again. If you can't find a way to make her feel special to you, then there is no chance of getting her back. Good luck.

Despite what has happened recently I still love my Virgo ex, so if you have any advice on reigniting a Virgo Mans Love again, please send some advice my way. Thanks 🙂

This is so on point bt ryt now we've broken up tho' she asked for it. What are our chances of getting bck together.

I'm a scorpio woman, when we truly love someone we love hard..If she is wise and mature and truly in love with you, don't hide your feelings with her.. Tell her how you really feel truthfully to win her heart back and be careful not to bruise it again.. Don't let a good woman fall into the hands of someone else.. You won't get another chance and she will move on..

Don't you dare call him! He told you, and your not willing to accept it...He's no longer interested in you and if you continue to phone him, and try and be his friend, he will just use you for it! Do you want to be a fill-in, or a booty-call? Take it from me, I am in my forties, been around the block and have done and heard it all.

Let him go, and move on though it's killing you and it's hard, but it's best. Sometimes we women never get the real reason as to why it was all good then it goes South quickly. Another word of advice, never just move in with a man, you date, and if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he will ask you to marry him period!

That's not how virgo men are. I am one, and know very many. We are more likely to throw ourselves on a spike for you than use you, even if we had broken up. So though I can't speak for his character personally since I so not know him, I doubt her continues contact will lead him to use her, not consciously anyway. The only way I see her getting hurt through attempted, continued contact is,that he will see her feelings for what they still are regardless of what kind of filter she tries to put on it, and might end up leading her on accidentally just because he is lax to hurt her by disillusioning her.